"He was a fragile stone, completely dependent upon his Master and Friend, even as Jesus had insisted on his dependence on the Father." Michael Card, A Fragile Stone
Peter was a man of faith.
He walked on the water.
Peter was a man of passion.
He cut off the ear of a guard who came to arrest Jesus.
Peter was a man of knowledge.
He proclaimed, “You are the Christ, the Son of the living God.”
Peter was a man of doubt. He took his eyes off Jesus and sank into the water.
Peter was a man who was fragile. He denied Christ three times after He was arrested.
How many times have we walked on the water and felt great about our lives, our spiritual experiences, our health?
How many times have we passionately stood by a friend or stood on a principle?
How many times have we proclaimed that we know Jesus as our Lord and Savior?
How many times have we doubted that God will meet our needs?
How many times have we been fragile?
I have felt as if I have been thrown to the floor and shattered, time after time, but the Potter reaches down, throws away the shards from the vessel and begins making me knew again.
Our God is strong and mighty. He is the Potter and He knows my name.
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Thursday, July 16, 2009
The Best Social Networking Site
The Best Social Networking Site
24And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, 25not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching. Hebrews 10:24-25
I belong to an awesome social networking group. Chances are that many of my readers belong to such a group, even if it is not the one that I belong to. I’m not talking about Facebook, MySpace or any of the other myriad online networking sites. I’m talking about a group that does not even require an Internet connection to participate.
The group I belong to is a church. In my case, I am a member of Midway Church of God. While my network may be small, it is a member of a much larger network called the body of Christ. Many other churches, of all kinds of denominations belong to that network. The only requirement is that they be a true Bible-believing church who believes in one triune God (Father, Son and Holy Ghost) and salvation through the blood of Jesus Christ.
We are told in Hebrews 10:24-25 to stir up love and good works and not forsake the assembling of ourselves together. A Christian can be a Christian without going to church, but a car can also be a car without gas, water and oil but try to run a car without those things. Try to live a Christian life without going to church and engaging in fellowship with other believers who encourage and exhort you. It’s not easy, is it? After a while, your Christian life runs down and you become useless for Christ, even though you may still be saved. Cars need to have gas, oil and water to run. A Christian needs prayer, Bible study and church to run.
I have been through a number of crises this past year. If it had not been for my network of friends at my church and other churches who have prayed for me and helped me in so many other ways, I could not have made it.
If you do not go to church, you are invited to join us each Sunday morning, Sunday evening and Wednesday evening at Midway Church of God. I’m sure that you will be welcome at other churches also. If you do go to church, make sure you’re there (if at all possible) when the doors are open. It’s a social networking site that every one can enjoy.
24And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, 25not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching. Hebrews 10:24-25
I belong to an awesome social networking group. Chances are that many of my readers belong to such a group, even if it is not the one that I belong to. I’m not talking about Facebook, MySpace or any of the other myriad online networking sites. I’m talking about a group that does not even require an Internet connection to participate.
The group I belong to is a church. In my case, I am a member of Midway Church of God. While my network may be small, it is a member of a much larger network called the body of Christ. Many other churches, of all kinds of denominations belong to that network. The only requirement is that they be a true Bible-believing church who believes in one triune God (Father, Son and Holy Ghost) and salvation through the blood of Jesus Christ.
We are told in Hebrews 10:24-25 to stir up love and good works and not forsake the assembling of ourselves together. A Christian can be a Christian without going to church, but a car can also be a car without gas, water and oil but try to run a car without those things. Try to live a Christian life without going to church and engaging in fellowship with other believers who encourage and exhort you. It’s not easy, is it? After a while, your Christian life runs down and you become useless for Christ, even though you may still be saved. Cars need to have gas, oil and water to run. A Christian needs prayer, Bible study and church to run.
I have been through a number of crises this past year. If it had not been for my network of friends at my church and other churches who have prayed for me and helped me in so many other ways, I could not have made it.
If you do not go to church, you are invited to join us each Sunday morning, Sunday evening and Wednesday evening at Midway Church of God. I’m sure that you will be welcome at other churches also. If you do go to church, make sure you’re there (if at all possible) when the doors are open. It’s a social networking site that every one can enjoy.
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Same Message, Different Singer
And the tongue is a fire, the very world of iniquity; the tongue is set among our members as that which defiles the entire body, and sets on fire the course of our life, and is set on fire by hell. James 3:6
My brother underwent triple bypass surgery on Monday. The surgery lasted two hours longer than they thought it would because it was not as easy as the doctor had thought it would be. My brother had a lot of inflammation in his heart and they found out he had coronary artery disease, which he probably inherited from my grandfather Gene Bembry. They also thought he would have to go back into surgery later that day, which, thank the Lord, he didn’t.
While speaking with Danny on Tuesday, he told me and my father a lot of things that had hurt him over the years. He told us about some of his classmates hurting him, he talked about things others had said to him over the years that hurt him and he told us about how we had hurt him with words that had gone straight to his heart. He had not been hurt physically. Words had hurt him.
So many times we say things that we don’t really mean to people that we really love. We shouldn’t say things like that to him. We work all day and then go home and grouch at our families. We shouldn’t be grumps at home or at work. We need to learn to control our tongues.
Ernie Dawson, lead singer for the gospel group Heirline, wrote the following words:
Words all their power is real,
They can hurt or they can heal,
Can’t be touched but you can feel,
Words,
there is strength in every one
And when all is said and done
Wars are lost and battles won
With words.
Ernie had been hurt with words as a child. The message in his song and in what Danny told me on Tuesday is the same. We should not use our words as a hammer to hurt others. We should use them to heal and to lift others up.
Job 34:3 tells us: “For the ear trieth words, as the mouth tasteth meat.” If the meat is no good, it makes us sick just as words, which are no good, will also make us sick.
I know that I will have a hard time not using my words as a weapon but I am going to try and bridle my tongue and use it only to uplift others, especially my family and my friends, the people who are most important to me and I am going to try and not hurt anyone else with my tongue. I encourage others to do the same.
w
My brother underwent triple bypass surgery on Monday. The surgery lasted two hours longer than they thought it would because it was not as easy as the doctor had thought it would be. My brother had a lot of inflammation in his heart and they found out he had coronary artery disease, which he probably inherited from my grandfather Gene Bembry. They also thought he would have to go back into surgery later that day, which, thank the Lord, he didn’t.
While speaking with Danny on Tuesday, he told me and my father a lot of things that had hurt him over the years. He told us about some of his classmates hurting him, he talked about things others had said to him over the years that hurt him and he told us about how we had hurt him with words that had gone straight to his heart. He had not been hurt physically. Words had hurt him.
So many times we say things that we don’t really mean to people that we really love. We shouldn’t say things like that to him. We work all day and then go home and grouch at our families. We shouldn’t be grumps at home or at work. We need to learn to control our tongues.
Ernie Dawson, lead singer for the gospel group Heirline, wrote the following words:
Words all their power is real,
They can hurt or they can heal,
Can’t be touched but you can feel,
Words,
there is strength in every one
And when all is said and done
Wars are lost and battles won
With words.
Ernie had been hurt with words as a child. The message in his song and in what Danny told me on Tuesday is the same. We should not use our words as a hammer to hurt others. We should use them to heal and to lift others up.
Job 34:3 tells us: “For the ear trieth words, as the mouth tasteth meat.” If the meat is no good, it makes us sick just as words, which are no good, will also make us sick.
I know that I will have a hard time not using my words as a weapon but I am going to try and bridle my tongue and use it only to uplift others, especially my family and my friends, the people who are most important to me and I am going to try and not hurt anyone else with my tongue. I encourage others to do the same.
w
Friday, June 26, 2009
Death Of An Angel And A King
It’s always sad when someone you grew up with dies. It’s even sad when they are someone you grew up watching on television or you grew up listening to them on the radio.
The first time I saw Farrah Fawcett on Charlie’s Angels, I thought she was the most beautiful woman that I had ever seen. She had stunning blue eyes and masses of gorgeous blonde tresses on a streamlined, tanned body. Beauty fades, however, and Farrah’s beauty also faded due to the ravages of health. I will always remember her as she was when I was 12 or 13 years old.
I don’t remember the first time I saw or heard Michael Jackson. It seems like he was always there. I was never a big fan of Michael, but I was entertained by him. He could possibly be the greatest entertainer of all time. Although I was not a big fan, I would always stop and take a look when one of his videos was on or if he was on TV, doing a moonwalk across the stage. Later, his life was filled with controversy, as he was charged with child molestation. This morning, the Jackson family attorney was on Fox and Friends and he said that Michael had a problem with prescription drugs? Did the “King of Pop” die the same way that Elvis, “the King of Rock and Roll,” died? Was it prescription drugs?
Why has everyone spoken so much of a man whose life was filled with so much controversy? Fox and Friends co-anchor Steve Doocy probably gave the best answer with this short response: “We’re conflicted.” People are, indeed, conflicted over the death of someone they were entertained by but also shocked by.
I don’t know where Farrah or Michael stood with God when they made their crossings. I do know that Michael is no longer “the King of Pop” or any other type of king. I know that Farrah is no longer a “Charlie’s Angel” or any other type of angel. People do not become angels when they go to Heaven. God gave man a free will and men can repent of their sins. Angels cannot.
I hope that Farrah and Michael were ready when death came for them and I pray that their families and friends will be comforted during this trying time.
The first time I saw Farrah Fawcett on Charlie’s Angels, I thought she was the most beautiful woman that I had ever seen. She had stunning blue eyes and masses of gorgeous blonde tresses on a streamlined, tanned body. Beauty fades, however, and Farrah’s beauty also faded due to the ravages of health. I will always remember her as she was when I was 12 or 13 years old.
I don’t remember the first time I saw or heard Michael Jackson. It seems like he was always there. I was never a big fan of Michael, but I was entertained by him. He could possibly be the greatest entertainer of all time. Although I was not a big fan, I would always stop and take a look when one of his videos was on or if he was on TV, doing a moonwalk across the stage. Later, his life was filled with controversy, as he was charged with child molestation. This morning, the Jackson family attorney was on Fox and Friends and he said that Michael had a problem with prescription drugs? Did the “King of Pop” die the same way that Elvis, “the King of Rock and Roll,” died? Was it prescription drugs?
Why has everyone spoken so much of a man whose life was filled with so much controversy? Fox and Friends co-anchor Steve Doocy probably gave the best answer with this short response: “We’re conflicted.” People are, indeed, conflicted over the death of someone they were entertained by but also shocked by.
I don’t know where Farrah or Michael stood with God when they made their crossings. I do know that Michael is no longer “the King of Pop” or any other type of king. I know that Farrah is no longer a “Charlie’s Angel” or any other type of angel. People do not become angels when they go to Heaven. God gave man a free will and men can repent of their sins. Angels cannot.
I hope that Farrah and Michael were ready when death came for them and I pray that their families and friends will be comforted during this trying time.
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Slamming The Door In The Face Of God
“When you say a situation or a person is hopeless, you are slamming the door in the face of God.” Charles L. Allen
There have been many times when I’ve wanted to say a situation is hopeless. Many times, and I hate to admit this, I’ve thought that other people are hopeless. Time and time again, I’m so amazed at how God works out things for good.
A look at history shows us seemingly hopeless people and hopeless situations. We don’t remember their hopelessness, however. We remember who they became.
A little boy injured his leg. The leg grows progressively worse. The doctor wants to amputate his leg, but the boy refuses. The doctor tells the boy’s parents that he could die if the boy’s leg is not amputated. The boy begs one of his older brothers to not let the doctor amputate his leg. The brother guards the boy. The parents and his siblings begin a prayer vigil. The next day, the infection begins going away. Soon, the boy is back on his feet and walking. A few years later, he graduates from West Point. Then he becomes a general in the U.S. Army, and the Supreme Commander of the Allied Forces in World War II. A few years after the war, he becomes President. His name was Dwight David Eisenhower.
One man loses most of his hearing at twelve years old. He blames it on when he was lifted by his ears onto a train. Earlier, teachers had called him “addle-brained” and given up hope on him. Where they saw junk, however, his mother saw treasure. She taught him herself at home and he became one of the greatest inventors of all time. The next time, when you look at a light bulb or watch a movie, think of a little boy teachers thought was stupid and then think of Thomas Edison.
Another boy that people thought was stupid was one of the greatest scientists of all time. “He’s hopeless,” people said, throwing up their hands in despair. Think of the stupid little boy and then think of the man. The man named Albert Einstein.
We need to never say a situation or a person is hopeless. When we do, we slam the door in the face of God. Would you want to be rude to a man who gave His only Son, Jesus Christ, to redeem the world from sin?
There have been many times when I’ve wanted to say a situation is hopeless. Many times, and I hate to admit this, I’ve thought that other people are hopeless. Time and time again, I’m so amazed at how God works out things for good.
A look at history shows us seemingly hopeless people and hopeless situations. We don’t remember their hopelessness, however. We remember who they became.
A little boy injured his leg. The leg grows progressively worse. The doctor wants to amputate his leg, but the boy refuses. The doctor tells the boy’s parents that he could die if the boy’s leg is not amputated. The boy begs one of his older brothers to not let the doctor amputate his leg. The brother guards the boy. The parents and his siblings begin a prayer vigil. The next day, the infection begins going away. Soon, the boy is back on his feet and walking. A few years later, he graduates from West Point. Then he becomes a general in the U.S. Army, and the Supreme Commander of the Allied Forces in World War II. A few years after the war, he becomes President. His name was Dwight David Eisenhower.
One man loses most of his hearing at twelve years old. He blames it on when he was lifted by his ears onto a train. Earlier, teachers had called him “addle-brained” and given up hope on him. Where they saw junk, however, his mother saw treasure. She taught him herself at home and he became one of the greatest inventors of all time. The next time, when you look at a light bulb or watch a movie, think of a little boy teachers thought was stupid and then think of Thomas Edison.
Another boy that people thought was stupid was one of the greatest scientists of all time. “He’s hopeless,” people said, throwing up their hands in despair. Think of the stupid little boy and then think of the man. The man named Albert Einstein.
We need to never say a situation or a person is hopeless. When we do, we slam the door in the face of God. Would you want to be rude to a man who gave His only Son, Jesus Christ, to redeem the world from sin?
Friday, May 29, 2009
I'm Loving Losing
I usually don't like to lose, but lately I've been loving losing. I have lost a little over 13 pounds in the past two weeks. Pray for me that I keep losing weight.
Weight is the only thing that I love losing because I am competitive. I believe that my competitiveness is motivating me to keep losing the weight. I am setting some goals for myself, which may seem farfetched at this point but I know that if I keep striving for them, they can be attained.
Don't laugh but one of my goals is to be able to run a half-marathon by next year. I hope to be able to run a 5K and a 10K before that.
I have been learning how to control my appetite and push away from the table earlier. I've joined Weight Watchers and I have been counting points.
I went to O'Neal's with my family the other day and I will continue to go. I enjoyed a piece of baked chicken (after taking the skin off), some beans, a salad and a little rice. As always, it was delicious but I was able to push away from the food. I was surprised when my sister, Abbie, out-ate me.
The one thing that I will try not to eat anymore at O'Neal's is their ribs and barbecue sauce. I can actually take or leave the ribs, but their barbecue sauce is the food of the angels. I don't know what owner Danny Croft puts in it, but it is delicious. I could sit and drink the stuff, but I will not do it. It's kind of like KFC cole slaw. You can forget the chicken but the slaw is divine.
I have felt better since I have started losing weight and I find myself meeting and beating little challenges (such as not eating Danny Croft's BBQ sauce). It feels good when I get on that scale once a week and see if I have lost anything.
I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me. (Philippians 4:13). With Christ on my side, I know I can reach my goals! In the meantime, I will keep on being a loser and losing with pride.
Weight is the only thing that I love losing because I am competitive. I believe that my competitiveness is motivating me to keep losing the weight. I am setting some goals for myself, which may seem farfetched at this point but I know that if I keep striving for them, they can be attained.
Don't laugh but one of my goals is to be able to run a half-marathon by next year. I hope to be able to run a 5K and a 10K before that.
I have been learning how to control my appetite and push away from the table earlier. I've joined Weight Watchers and I have been counting points.
I went to O'Neal's with my family the other day and I will continue to go. I enjoyed a piece of baked chicken (after taking the skin off), some beans, a salad and a little rice. As always, it was delicious but I was able to push away from the food. I was surprised when my sister, Abbie, out-ate me.
The one thing that I will try not to eat anymore at O'Neal's is their ribs and barbecue sauce. I can actually take or leave the ribs, but their barbecue sauce is the food of the angels. I don't know what owner Danny Croft puts in it, but it is delicious. I could sit and drink the stuff, but I will not do it. It's kind of like KFC cole slaw. You can forget the chicken but the slaw is divine.
I have felt better since I have started losing weight and I find myself meeting and beating little challenges (such as not eating Danny Croft's BBQ sauce). It feels good when I get on that scale once a week and see if I have lost anything.
I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me. (Philippians 4:13). With Christ on my side, I know I can reach my goals! In the meantime, I will keep on being a loser and losing with pride.
Monday, May 25, 2009
Advice For Graduates
I have been working on a surprise for two students at my church. One of them has already graduated from high school, thanks to the GED test; the other will graduate next week.
One of the things that my “surprise” consists of is advice that I have learned over the years. Much of the advice has come because of scars, bruises and black eyes (not literally, but figuratively) in the boxing match called life.
My advice for Erika and Cody, both from Suwannee County, as well as for all the graduates this year, includes the following:
*Read the Bible through from cover to cover as often as you can. Please read it at least once. If you have to, you can always find CDs or MP3s with the Bible on them. You can even find audio Bibles on the Internet.
*Always remember that without Jesus Christ, you can’t accomplish anything. You can’t even pray without invoking Jesus’ name because he is the advocate between God the Father and us.
*I can’t stress this enough because it is something I did not do and something that I don’t have a chance to do now. Save some money each time you get paid. Put it aside for a rainy day. Believe me, the rainy days will come. Everything may look bright and sunny now, but the rain’s going to fall at times that you least expect it.
*Please remember to exercise and eat right. Right now, you may be able to eat anything that you want and not gain a pound, In high school, I weighed 165 pounds. You don’t want to be as big as I am right now.
*You can’t change other people no matter how hard you try. That is God’s business. He is the only person who can change hearts.
*Always be kind to others even when it’s hard and it does get so hard at times.
*Hold on tight to your dreams, but this doesn’t mean you always have to have the same dream. If you decide to follow another dream, think it over carefully, and if you decide to follow the new one, go ahead and do it.
*Be proud of your accomplishments (like graduating from high school) but be humble when it comes to things like your looks, your brains, etc. “Let another praise you, and not your own mouth; A stranger, and not your own lips.” (Proverbs 27:2, New American Standard Bible)
Remember, your family is proud of you, your church is proud of you and Jacob is proud of you.
One of the things that my “surprise” consists of is advice that I have learned over the years. Much of the advice has come because of scars, bruises and black eyes (not literally, but figuratively) in the boxing match called life.
My advice for Erika and Cody, both from Suwannee County, as well as for all the graduates this year, includes the following:
*Read the Bible through from cover to cover as often as you can. Please read it at least once. If you have to, you can always find CDs or MP3s with the Bible on them. You can even find audio Bibles on the Internet.
*Always remember that without Jesus Christ, you can’t accomplish anything. You can’t even pray without invoking Jesus’ name because he is the advocate between God the Father and us.
*I can’t stress this enough because it is something I did not do and something that I don’t have a chance to do now. Save some money each time you get paid. Put it aside for a rainy day. Believe me, the rainy days will come. Everything may look bright and sunny now, but the rain’s going to fall at times that you least expect it.
*Please remember to exercise and eat right. Right now, you may be able to eat anything that you want and not gain a pound, In high school, I weighed 165 pounds. You don’t want to be as big as I am right now.
*You can’t change other people no matter how hard you try. That is God’s business. He is the only person who can change hearts.
*Always be kind to others even when it’s hard and it does get so hard at times.
*Hold on tight to your dreams, but this doesn’t mean you always have to have the same dream. If you decide to follow another dream, think it over carefully, and if you decide to follow the new one, go ahead and do it.
*Be proud of your accomplishments (like graduating from high school) but be humble when it comes to things like your looks, your brains, etc. “Let another praise you, and not your own mouth; A stranger, and not your own lips.” (Proverbs 27:2, New American Standard Bible)
Remember, your family is proud of you, your church is proud of you and Jacob is proud of you.
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